The Great Radio Mystery

Thursday, June 11th, 2009 at 12:22 am

Are You an Extremely Smart Dater for Having Given the Great Relationship Advice to Your Ex Love Partner for a Making Up Relationship?

Are you an extremely smart dater for having given the great relationship advice to your ex love partner for a making up relationship?

Are you a smart dater? Before you answer yes, I’ve got to tell you that in my experience as a singles and relationship coach, most people are not smart daters. Most singles make at least one if not a series of the most common dating mistakes. Let’s take a closer look at each of these mistakes and what to do instead.

Which of these common dating mistakes are you making? Recently on my weekly Relationship Radio Show in Atlanta I had the pleasure of interviewing the husband and wife psychology team of Judith Sherven and Jim Sniechowski on the subject of smart dating. Judith and Jim have designed their own Smart Dating Program for Singles.

According to Judith and Jim, the single biggest mistake that almost every single makes is “playing the dating game.” The opposite of smart dating is not dumb dating, it’s traditional dating. Quoting Judith and Jim “The traditional way of dating does make it a ‘game’ and that’s the problem - because meeting and mating isn’t ever going to succeed when approached like a game.”

Approaching dating as a traditional game leads to the following “games” –

Playing hard to get

Acting mysterious

Building up a man’s ego

Acting like her Prince Charming

Pursuit and capture

It’s just as easy to marry a rich man

Got to keep her guessing

And on and on it goes

Smart dating allows you to approach dating with your head up, knowing what you want and how to get it, and being yourself. So many times, in an attempt to put our best foot forward and make a good impression, we act like someone we are not. Then we wonder why we are so disappointed when we discover the person is not who they portrayed themselves to be. Or you are the one who disappoints because you are not as you portrayed yourself to be.

This false portrayal is based on the fear of rejection. When approach dating as a game, we give a ton of power to the other person, and we can be rejected!

When you approach dating from a smart perspective you cannot be rejected!

Think of it this way - When you are looking for a house, you have a list in mind about which house and what kind of house will be the right one for you. If you or your real estate agent shows you a house that in many ways is a great house, but just not the right one for you, for whatever reason, it is not an issue of rejection. It an issue of not the right fit.

You would not however, try to make the house fit when it can not, or go home feeling rejected by the house. That sounds silly, but it is what we do in relationships.

So get very clear about what you want in a relationship, look for that fit, and do not settle for less. The beauty is when you find someone that fits you and you fit that someone. And remember, it only takes one!

Indeed, life is short. Don't let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again.

I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.

How to get your boyfriend back?

Watch a video that shows you exactly what you must NEVER do, what you should do to get your ex back and why at http://www.squidoo.com/how_can_i_retrieve_my_ex_lover_back

You will also learn how to reverse the situation if you have already done those things that should NEVER be done.

About the Author

Jim Lim Da Hong, sgtopmarketseller@gmail.com, Freelance SelfEmployed Graduate

Old Time Radio Broadcasts?

Where or how can I find a radio station that has some of the great old time heros of yesterday? When I was a teenager, I used to listen to "The Green Hornet", "Gang Busters", Mystery Theater", "The Shadow", "Lone Ranger". Even James Stewart who later went on to become one of our most famous big screen actors, got his start in radio with a show called, I believe, "The Jeromie Kid" or something like it. He really made ya feel like you were there.
By the way, I have checked the local listing of radio stations in the newpapers (San Francisco), can't find anything.

go to nastalgaradio.com and please check spelling before putting in the address. but you should find old radio stations there

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